Road trips and road blocks

Q: What did the skin say to the syringe?  

A: Don’t be such a prick.

These are things I have to resort to to entertain myself in hospital; making up lame jokes like the one written above. They can also help lighten the mood when things get – much like the weather at the moment – bleak.

Because there hasn’t been that much to laugh about lately, really. On Tuesday, I had PET scan no.6. Since I am an old hat at PET scans, the whole procedure is pretty much routine for me now: arrive to hospital starving hungry, tired and grumpy (after 6-12 hours of fasting), fill out a form, get called into a room, change into hideous hospital-provided pants (because the metal zipper of my jeans will interfere with the scan), get injected with radioactive liquid, lie in a dark room for an hour, lie on the PET scanner bed and get passed through the whirring donut. I have grown to hate PET scans and they are usually preceded by two days of major pre-scan anxiety, which means I don't sleep well the night before and am generally a grumpy, cantankerous person for a day or two and horrible company. 

This time around I had pre-scan anxiety like no other. I literally had two hours sleep the night before the PET. It’s really no wonder, since only one of six scans have given me anything to celebrate. PET = pain, in my book. But additionally, I had a very bad feeling because of the signs my body had been giving me. I didn’t get many side effects from the chemo, and in my third week, when my blood counts were coming up and I should’ve felt better, I felt very, very tired, my appetite was next to nothing and I had the occasional night sweat – at times I felt worse than I had in the previous two weeks of my chemo. Which just gave me an inkling that the cancer was still hanging around; I felt a lot of these 'old' symptoms were coming back.

And it really shows how in tune with my body I actually am, that my hunch was right. My results weren’t great. Basically, the cancer has barely changed. It hasn’t really grown, but it hasn’t shrunk either. "If you're a half-glass-full kind of person" as my haematologist would say, it has halted the lymphoma’s progression, which is something, as pre-chemo, it was growing mega-fast.

But what it means is that I can’t have the stem cell transplant on September 3 as planned, because there is still too much cancer for it be to curative. Before the SCT can go ahead I need more chemo (just to add to the bucketloads I have already had) and this time we are heading into unknown territory. They’re going to have to try a chemo that hasn’t seen my lymphoma before - which could be a good or bad thing. Good because my body hasn’t built a resistance like it clearly has to the Hyper-CVAD, bad because it might not work. But the most annoying thing in all this is that they will have to push back the stem cell transplant even further – to something like November.

Just another obstacle, another change of plans, and my chance for a cure just pushed even further away. I really, really needed some good news this week – all of my last consultations with doctors have been bad news, and not just bad – worst-case scenario a lot of the time. Oh crap - your cancer’s come back after 6 cycles of chemo and a stem cell transplant, oh shit, now your cancer is growing at an unprecedented rate and you need more chemo, oh !@#%, the chemo didn’t really do the job, now we have to switch to a different poison that might not work. The fact that I want to scream right now would not come as a surprise.

And … depression. Oh boy, do I understand depression so much more than I ever did. I feel for anyone who has to go through it, it is a dark, dark place to be. I was so optimistic when I began this journey, and I honestly believed I would beat this disease. Death didn’t even register as an option. Now things are different, and dark clouds of doubt hover over me every day, because as hopeful as I would like to be, I also need to be prepared for the fact that things won’t work out. The result is me trying to hold myself in some kind of emotional ‘limbo’ where I don’t get my hopes up but I don’t slip into the depths of despair either. It is very, very difficult. 

The last round of chemo was a busy cycle, and mostly due to Matt being here, though he’s gone home now. Poor Matt– having been here when I got my bad PET scan results, he was dragged onto my horrible rollercoaster of hospital visits, family dramas, last-minute plan changes, antibiotics and all the things that have become a normality to me. Though, even I have had a three-month break so it’s been pretty hard for me too. The timing couldn’t have been more wrong, but it wasn’t like I could tell my lymphoma to take a week off. It was a difficult time but we also managed to make the best of a shit situation, and if Matt had no grasp of what I’ve been through in the last six months, he certainly does now!

But … all these things aside, Matt and I got to do some pretty cool stuff, like a day trip to Wilson’s Promontory (where we saw kangaroos! And emus! And a wombat) and Tarra Bulga National Park which is totally cool and virtually in my backyard, and a lot of other things, like some absolutely breathtaking sunsets … I’ve seen a lot of sunsets all over the world and have decided that Australia has the most dramatic, especially in winter. (And we got to travel in an XR6, because one positive thing about having cancer is that your parents let you take their sportscar out, when they would never do that otherwise. Win. ) I drove four hours on day 7 of my chemo - clearly I couldn’t do any of the arduous walks - but it’s nice to know that cancer doesn’t completely control my life, and sometimes I do get time to smell the roses.

Wilson's Prom: one of my favourite places

It was so nice to get out of town, to breathe in the sea air, feel the sand between my toes, delve deep into the wet mossy rainforest … we really do live in such a beautiful, fantastic country.

Wednesday it was back to Peter Mac and by Thursday I was neutropenic. At this time I noticed a little red spot on my hand, and I was instantly wary, as I’d had this type of skin infection show up during chemotherapy before. What do you know, by Saturday the redness around it had spread and there was clearly an infection going on. The doctor gave me oral antibiotics so I did what anyone with neutropenia would do – went to the footy!

That night I was supposed to have my wig party which I cancelled because I was neutropenic (sorry everyone. Will reschedule, I promise). Instead I went out with a small group of my closest friends and relatives, and you know when you have one of those awesomely fun nights, which is fun for no other reason than your ridiculously awesome company? This was one of those nights. The next day my sides still hurt from laughing, especially at the sight of Sam in my blonde wig. It was just a really lovely night and I feel so lucky that I have so many people in my life who can put a smile on my face, at a time when I don’t have that much to smile about.

Oh dear. Who are these people? Please note we were rejected from
Section 8 which apparently has a 'no-wig policy'

The next day my hand was swelling up to the point it almost had its own postcode, so back to the hospital I went. This is when they told me I had to be admitted to hospital. I cried. Seriously, enough is enough, why do I have to have this swollen, sore hand on top of everything? I went into hospital on Sunday, and Matt was leaving Wednesday. The doctors said I would need IV antibiotics for a few days and I couldn’t bear the thought of still being in hospital when he left. One of the nurses knew how badly I wanted to get out and convinced them to discharge me, with “pumps” of antibiotics that I could hook up to my PICC line myself and carry around (I tied mine to my belt hooks). This meant I was out of hospital, and I was so happy. So now, I can give myself injections, I can give myself IV antibiotics and if you asked me to dress a PICC line I could give you specific step-by-step instructions and even show you how, and I bet I’d do it perfectly. Surely I should have some medical qualification by now (I told mum that I should have a nurse qualification soon, which was met with a ‘whatever’). 

My antibiotics on the Great Ocean Road

So Matt and I took this window of opportunity. At about 1pm we picked up a hire car from Melbourne, were ‘lunching’ in Lorne by 4.30, indulged in some unexpected whale spotting, got a speeding fine, nearly hit a roo, stayed in a gorgeous cottage with Jacuzzi in Port Campbell, woke before sunrise to see Loch Ard Gorge and 12 Apostles in the golden morning light, then made it to the airport around midday to get Matt on his plane to London. It was a lightning trip, but man it was worth it. However, at the end, we faced another difficult goodbye as I left Matt at “the door” of International Departures. You know, that door at Melbourne Airport that people who are flying overseas disappear behind, and sometimes you don’t know when you’re going to see that person again. This was the case for Matt and I, but I am so thankful I got to spend this time with him, I just wish circumstances had been better.

The moral of the story is that when things are doom and gloom, there are still so many blessings in life. Things are definitely starting to take their toll, it has been 10 months since I was diagnosed, and I feel that this has been the most testing time of my whole journey, by far. But if I can get through this, I will feel like I can achieve anything. And even though, let's face it, my life is pretty shit, I am still able to laugh, share and enjoy this world that I live in. Because when I am unable to do that, the cancer has won already. While I am still breathing I just have to enjoy each moment I've got. 

When the world tells you to give up ... hope whispers, 'Try one more time'

If there were ever an argument against planning, this would be it.  A couple of weeks ago, I figured because I had a bit of time off scheduled before my allograft, that I would book a trip for Matt (visiting from London) and I to Cairns. We would swap the dreary Melbourne chill for tropical weather, sandy white beaches, resorts with swim-up bars, a glass-walled treehouse amongst the Daintree Rainforest and a jaunt to the Great Barrier Reef. It was going to be amazing, and I was looking forward to it more than anything in the world.

Until my PET scan results came back.

When I walked into the haematologist’s office five days ago, roughly two hours after my PET had been completed, he told me straight up: “Your PET: it’s not good.” My heart sunk. He went on to explain that there had been “substantial growth” of the cancer spot that had showed up six weeks ago on my scan - substantial enough to warrant a major change in plans. In six weeks, the lymphoma cells had decided to go crazy and go on a free-for-all spree across my body and as a result I have a growth in my chest, several deposits in my abdomen and another in my arm. This was not what I, or the doctors expected, and all I could do is stare at that scan, breaking out in a cold sweat, wondering, why, just why won’t this thing go away and let me get on with my life?

For an allograft to be effective, there has to be minimal cancer present. If there is too much lymphoma, it simply won’t work. Unfortunately my lymphoma had reached the limit of “too much”. So the doctor told me we would be switching to Plan B … or is it Plan C, D, E or Z? I’ve lost track now.

Which is why I now find myself back in Ward 2 at Peter Mac, hooked up to a drip, while I get more chemotherapy in a bid to shrink my cancer down to a manageable size so we can still go ahead with the allograft. Instead of diving into the deep blue seas of North Queensland, I leapt straight back into that murky teal green colour of a hospital bed.

The chemotherapy is called Hyper-CVAD. I had two rounds of this chemo before my auto stem cell transplant – it was pretty nasty stuff that made my eyelashes and eyebrows fall out but it also put me into remission. It’s really the only thing that’s shown any considerable clout in the fight against my lymphoma, so I’m hoping it’s still at its fighting best this time around. I need it to be.

In early August, I will get another PET. If the cancer is small enough, we will go ahead as planned with the allograft on August 27. If the cancer isn’t, I will undergo another round of Hyper-CVAD, then go into the transplant.

Neither situation is ideal, as it places me at high risk of toxicity. The toxicity levels in my body could lead to deadly implications during the allograft. Having the aurograft and allograft in such close proximity was always a danger, but throwing the extra chemotherapy into the mix has shaken things up a notch. In a word, I am terrified.

The doctors have made it very clear they are still working towards a cure, and I am still as hopeful as ever. I have dreams of reaching the end of this nightmare, my body, broken and battered, shaky on its feet, but filled with pure elation because I went to hell and back and made it. But I also have to be realistic. There is a very real chance that I could lose this race. And if it wasn’t my life in the balance then let’s face it, I would have given up ages ago.

So needless to say, I had to cancel that trip to Cairns. Kindly, the accommodation providers I booked with in Cairns gave me a full refund with no charge when they heard my story, but I guess it must’ve been hard for Colin from Beach Hideaway Cabins (complete with friendly ocker Queensland accent) to take the $170 from me after I’d just blubbered into the phone that I wouldn’t be making it because I had chemotherapy. Unfortunately the people at Tiger Airways haven’t managed to show me the same compassion yet though, it’s a sad world we live in sometimes.

Anyway, if anything, this experience has given me a chance to be reunited with some old friends. The PICC line is back in my arm, I’ve been peeing in a pan for days, Big Bertha (my IV drip monitor) is by my side again, a big bag of chemotherapy is slung high on the drip, inside its ominous-looking sun-protecting black bag and of course, there's the wonderful nurses here at Peter Mac who all know me by name (either looking at me as if my puppy just died or wisecracking, “I thought I told you we didn’t want to see you here again.”) I’ve also welcomed an unrelenting river of loud, wonderful, colourful visitors (some of them drunk, admittedly) to Peter Mac and the gloves, gown and orange ‘duckbill’ mask guests must don before they come into my ward (due to a flu outbreak) have provided many laughs and magical photo moments (see below).

The 'speck-duckular' respiratory masks at Peter Mac as modelled by the lovely Jacqui. 

I’m sorry that people have to read this; I really wish I had some good news to bring for once, I really do. But you hear of people defying the odds all the time, and maybe I’ll make it to the successful list - it’s not over yet. A man in ward 2 the other day told me “You’ll beat it,” with such certainty I almost whole-heartedly believed him. I’m 30 years old, I have (supposedly) one of the most treatable cancers that exist and my body is not going to go down without a fight. And as much as it hurts me to see my situation tear up those people that I love, I am also constantly reminded of how lucky I am to have them here in the first place. There is still fun to be had, my friends, and there is still hope. 

PET scan #3: third time lucky!

When I was given the news my PET scan came back completely clear, the heavens didn’t open to the chorus of ‘Hallelujah’, there were no tears, there was no jumping up and kissing/hugging the doctor ... it was nowhere near as dramatic as that. The news was merely met with a feeling of absolute joy and relief, but at the same time underpinned by an understanding that the journey is far from over.

The days leading up to the scan were filled with nervous tension. I hadn’t been sleeping very well.  All sorts of thoughts were running through my head. My second round of Hyper-CVAD had almost been a walk in the park compared to my first, and the lack of symptoms made me suspicious … was the chemo working? There was no way of knowing. And with the memory of my last two PET scans - which did not wield uplifting results - etched in my mind, as much as I tried to remain positive, that little black slug called doubt would occasionally creep in. Hyper-CVAD works for 4 out of 5 people, but every now and then I couldn’t help but wonder – would I be part of that doomed 10%? It was a possibility and one I had to be prepared for.

Finally the day of the PET scan arrived. While I come from a religious background, I don’t consider myself a particularly spiritual person nowadays. But when I pulled on my hospital gown, lay down on the white bed and was passed through the PET scanner for the third time, I prayed. Boy, did I pray. I prayed more than I’ve prayed in my whole life, to whoever was listening. It’s hard to explain what was going through my head at that time. As hard as I was wishing for positive results, there was also a peaceful feeling; an acceptance of my own fate.

However, the results of the PET scan wouldn’t be up for discussion until Friday, two days later, so I was just going to have to distract myself until then. So of course, I indulged in some good old-fashioned retail therapy in Brunswick Street. While I was shopping my phone rang, and it was Trish, the nursing co-ordinator from Peter Mac. “I just wanted to let you know that your PET scan was fantastic,” she said. “We’ll discuss it more on Friday, but it looks great. Everything is falling into place.” I was really grateful she called to tell me, as it really did take a load off my mind for the next day or so, even though I didn’t know the full details.

By the time Friday morning came around, my whole family was in Melbourne. My brother had travelled down from Bendigo, Dad and my little sister Megan (who had taken Friday off) had travelled up from Gippsland and my mum and my older sister Jacqui had already been in Melbourne. My appointment with the oncologist was bright and early at 8.45, and when I was called into the doctor’s office, I was accompanied by an entourage (Dad, Mum and Sam).

Being told my PET scan had come up completely clear was exhilarating. It was exactly what I needed to hear. But it’s important to put the result into perspective. Having a clear PET scan result does not necessarily mean I am free of cancer. The tracer used in the scan only detects cancer that exceeds 5mm. Therefore it was more likely, in my case in which the cancer had been very aggressive, that there was still cancer present, it was just simply too small for the scan to pick up. In any case, the cancer had been reduced enough that it was safe to go ahead with the stem cell transplant. It also meant that I would not need a third round of Hyper-CVAD, which meant I would not be admitted to hospital again any time soon. This was an immense relief to me; things were finally falling into place.

My very first PET scan, taken in November 2011. The big black splotch in my chest is a tumour. The black dots in my midriff area are secondary tumours. These are all gone now.

The first massive hurdle has been cleared, but there’s more to come. In four weeks I will begin what will probably be the hardest part of the whole process – the high-dose chemotherapy followed by the stem cell transplant. This will be carried out over three weeks. For the first week, I will be administered with a monster hit of chemo (we’re talking 15 times the amount I’ve had before), made up of three different drugs. These drugs are so potent that they will destroy my bone marrow, which will lose its ability to make stem cells, which produce the body's blood. About 48 hours after the round of chemo finishes, my stem cells (of which I have “gazoodles”, to use the technical term coined by the oncologist) will be thawed and given back to me via a drip. Over the following two weeks I will remain in hospital as I endure the side effects of the chemo. I will need blood transfusions, I will most likely need a feeding tube, I will have restricted visitors (immediate family only) and when I am finally eating and drinking properly again, I will be discharged. From here, the recovery – the process of building my strength and regaining blood cell production – will be long, and is likely to take months.

But even after all that, there is a 50% chance my lymphoma will come back, and if it comes back, it is incurable. So the oncologist has recommended that six weeks following the transplant, as long as it is safe to do so, I should undergo radiation to the chest area, which will help reduce the chance of a relapse by another 20-30%. Radiation also comes with a raft of risks and inconveniences, but these are pretty small in the scheme of things.

It was a lot to take in, but the main thing to come out of last week’s appointment and the one I haven’t stopped thinking about is the fact that my scan was clear. And when you look at what we were dealing with (the tumour in my chest was 14.5 by 9.5 centimetres), it is nothing short of a miracle that all that cancer is as good as gone.

The next decision was a big one: now that my long weekend was gloriously free, do I or don’t I hunt down a ticket to my favourite music festival, Golden Plains? Before I got sick, it had always been my plan to return home in March to attend this festival, so I could catch up with friends, enjoy some great music and get a little bit of the Australian summer before launching into the dreaded double winter.

The decision was made at 10am Saturday: we’d tracked down a ticket, I’d handed over the money, and I was going, in spite of how tired I was feeling. And after two days of beautiful sunshine, amazing music and excellent company, it was a decision I did not end up regretting. It’s nice to know that even after five rounds of intense chemotherapy, I am still able to dance myself into a stupour until 4am. It’s also nice to know that doing a festival sober isn’t too bad (although I did indulge in more than one Pink Flamingo, it has to be said, in keeping with tradition, of course). The tiredness, hoarse voice and achey feet were all merely symptoms of a good weekend and totally worth it. For the first time in ages I got to feel like my old self again, relishing my independence and feeling carefree, without doctors and nurses fussing over me.

OhAunty Meredith, how I have missed you ...

I got a single night’s sleep in my own bed before I was off to Melbourne again, to undergo surgery at the Royal Women’s Hospital to get some of my ovarian tissue removed for freezing (as the chemotherapy I will receive in four weeks is very likely to do permanent damage to my ovaries). After all the chemotherapy is over, the ovarian tissue can be implanted and alongside hormone treatments, will hopefully kick the ovary back into production. However, the procedure is very experimental and very few births have resulted from this process, so there are no guarantees, but there rarely is in this game. It was laparoscopic surgery (done via an incision in the belly button) with no complications; pretty tame compared to everything else I've been through, really.

After surgery I got my PICC line removed. It wasn’t going to be needed and as it can be a common site for infection, the doctor decided it could come out. I was relieved to see it go. Its removal to me was symbolic of the first chapter of my treatment being over. 

So right now I get a four-week breather ­– free of hospital visits, medications, check-ups and tests. It is four weeks in which I am expected to look after myself, build up my strength, remain active and get myself in the best possible shape for the transplant. I’m going to enjoy this time. The first hurdle has been well and truly cleared and I see the next four weeks as a little window of opportunity: to visit all those people I haven’t had a chance to. I'm going to travel a bit and just relax and have fun. I feel like I can look to the future with a lot of optimism now and it feels great. I might not be free of treatment just yet, but I'm free of uncertainty, and that's the best thing that's happened to me to date. 

Stem cells, phantom bugs and flowers

Life really is a fickle thing. One minute you're a seemingly normal, healthy person, with normal, healthy (and not-so-healthy) habits and duties. Decisions like 'Will I be able to make rent this week?' 'What should I wear to this party?' 'Where should I go for my next holiday?' dominate your reasonably carefree existence. How quickly a cancer diagnosis can change all that. Suddenly, your life is taken over by a big, heavy, threatening task that constantly looms ahead, and the hospital is not just a place you drive past every now and then, or hear about on the news. It's your second home. And every move you make, every change in your body is watched, monitored, discussed and documented. Every phone call or catch-up is to ask about your progress. And suddenly things like money, parties and clothes just don't seem to matter anymore.

I am very used to hospitals now. I've done the hospital circuit; I've been admitted to/received treatment at three in the UK and two in Australia. All of this has now brought me to the Peter MacCallum Cancer Centre in Melbourne. I’ve only been a patient with Peter Mac for a couple of weeks now, but already I know most of the nurses by name and familiarised myself with their individual quirks and nuances. I also keep bumping into some familiar faces among the patients, which is nice, though I am yet to meet a patient younger than me.

During my first admission to Peter Mac, I spent four days hooked up to a drip to receive my chemo. After that I got to go home for a few days. Those few days 'reprieve' at home were not particularly pleasant. I had some horrible symptoms that landed me in the emergency room on one occasion, and for the most part I felt helpless, weak, sore and completely flat and unmotivated. The days of painting, writing, editing, sorting through old belongings during my previous chemo were long gone. For someone who considers herself quite driven, this was difficult to deal with. I had no desire to answer my phone on some days. Depression suddenly made a lot more sense to me. 

Thankfully I was able to read though, and I voraciously consumed The Help (thanks Kate!) in a couple of weeks, which was really my own achievement over this time apart from the viewing of a few bad movies on Pay TV. 

On Sunday, about day 9/10 of my chemo, mum and I checked into our apartments next door to Peter Mac. The aim was that I would be close to the hospital so they could monitor me during my neutropenic phase and also carry out daily tests in order to collect my stem cells, which we had been boosting with daily injections of a hormone called GSCF. I was pretty much at my lowest point at this stage; I couldn't do much without feeling light-headed or short of breath. I didn’t even have enough energy to pack. After a restless sleep at the apartments, we were up early for my 8am blood test in Apheresis (the department in which stem cell collection takes place). I was feeling very rough. Just walking to the lift, out the building’s doors, then a few metres down to Peter Mac and back down the lift again, was really hard going. “Do you feel like you’ve been hit by a horse?” one of the Apheresis nurses asked me as I stood, or stooped, at the counter. They managed to find a vein (an arduous task for my arms at the moment), take the blood, then we went back to the apartment, where we would wait for a phone call regarding whether my stem cells would be collected that day or not. I crawled straight back into bed and slept soundly until 11am when Apheresis called me and told me not to bother getting up, because my bloods were too low, which explained my lethargic state.

That afternoon the dreaded happened. I checked my temperature (something I have to do four times a day now) and it was above 38 degrees; which generally means two things 1) an infection and 2) a hospital admission. I had also noticed something that looked like a spider bite or sting on my right knee, was becoming very, very swollen and red, and felt hot to touch. Every part of me wanted to be anywhere but in that hospital, but this was how it had to be. I was admitted at 8.30 that night, by which time, the lump on my knee was about the size of a golf ball.

So I settled in. The man in the bed beside me snored loudly. There's always a snorer - then the snorer gets discharged, and you feel relief, until the man across from you decides it's too quiet and works as a very effective replacement. It’s amazing though, I always manage to sleep reasonably well in hospitals. I don't know if the rhythmic hum of the drip machine and the medical staff and equipment moving around me that lulls me into a sense of sleepy security, but after three nights in hospital I didn't even know my night nurse’s name because I would always snooze right through her shift. 

Tuesday my bloods were still too low for the stem collection to happen, but they still wanted another blood test that day so they could monitor the trend. Getting blood out of me had been like getting blood out of a stone, literally. My veins had pretty much disappeared and most blood tests would require three or four jabs up my arm. Until I was able to be booked in for a port or PICC line, I had to endure the torture of nurses tying the rubber band around my arm until it felt like it was going to fall off, fingers pushing and pushing into my arm to feel for a vein, tentatively sticking in of a needle, sometimes failing to strike, sometimes succeeding. Blood sports!

The results showed my platelets (the blood cells that promote clotting) were low at 17 (normal counts are 150-400), which meant I required a platelet transfusion. A bag of yellow stuff resembling murky runny custard was hooked up to my drip, and viola! I had platelets, thanks to a range of generous donors. I was also given two blood transfusions as my red blood cells were also low (my blood type is B Positive! How fitting). My first blood transfusion, one that made me want to go out and donate blood, though unfortunately, my blood is no good to anyone now.

Wednesday morning heralded another dreaded blood test, but this one yielded good results. My blood counts were finally up, and my CD34 counts (the protein found in stem cells) were through the roof! It was about 350, ‘one of the highest they’d seen’ in Apheresis. “Lucky they were sitting down when I told them,” the nurse said. They were even gobsmacked enough to ask her “Are you sure it’s her blood?”

So Operation Stem Cell Harvest was on. First I had to go down to radiology and get a Vas Cath – a long tube that is surgically inserted into a large vein in my neck. It was a rather uncomfortable procedure carried out with some local anaesthetic, but they did the job, and then I was off to Apheresis, who couldn't wait to dip into my stem cell goldmine.

My Vas Cath. Frankenstein-esque

In Apheresis, I was hooked up to a giant machine via the tubes sticking out of my neck, and my blood was circulated through the machine which extracted the stem cells, then returned the remaining cells to my body. There was only one cup of blood outside my body at one time as I sat there for 2-3 hours as my blood wooshed through the machine and through my body. The machine made a curious sound as it worked away, similar to tap-dancing; what I liked to call the 'Stem Cell Song'. 

While that one collection would've given them the stem cells they needed, they brought me in again Friday morning for another go on the machine just to err on the side of caution. This time around we met a nice man called Aaron, who seemed to know a hell of a lot about stem cells. Aaron took some blood from me and predicted it would show a drop in my stem cell count, but again I caused quite a stir when my CD34 counts came back as 750. Now, that was the highest they'd seen! I don’t know what these high counts mean – I suppose it just indicates that my despite what my body has been through, my bone marrow is very healthy (or that I’m a superhero, as a friend suggested. Personally I like the latter theory better). I took a peek at the bag of stem cells before I returned to the ward, which resembled a Tequila Sunrise, the way they went from red at the bottom to a murky yellow at the top (where the white blood cells and plasma were). Mmm … Stem Cell Sunrise! When the official stem cell counts came back, it turned out they had harvested 67 million – which they figured must be close to a record! (They only need a minimum of 2 millon to go ahead with the transplant). I am a stem cell making machine!

My precious stem cells ... straight to the freezer you go!

Then the good news just kept coming. The doctor gave me the green flag to be discharged on Thursday afternoon. My white blood cells had leaped from 6.7 to 40 overnight; there was some kind of out-of-hand malaky going on in my bone marrow (maybe it was celebrating - hey, the stem cells are out! Let's throw a party!). That night I couldn’t wait to get out into the open air, free of all drips and hospital beds and blood tests and doctor visits, so my mum, sister and I treated ourselves to a delicious Thai feast on Smith Street.

It's amazing how quickly I bounce back, once I'm on the up again. For the next few days I was out and about in Melbourne, feeling very mobile and strong. My mother was stunned at my transformation; I was 100 times better than the Beth that had arrived in Melbourne several days ago. 

Saturday, we drove home and I spent a really nice weekend catching up with my little sister and old friends. Being in a small town, I found myself in the same restaurant two nights in a row; both times served by the same young chatty waiter. However, thanks to some crafty wig-wearing, the first night I'd been a brunette, and the second a blonde. The jury's still out on whether he actually worked out whether I was the same person or not.

By the time Valentine's Day came around, a day I for the most part refuse to acknowledge let alone mark in any way, I was pleasantly surprised by the arrival of a bouquet of white lilies delivered to my front door. As soon as I opened the card and read Matt's name I wanted to cry. Flowers, all the way from the UK. It's amazing how special gestures like this can make you feel. Maybe Valentine's Day isn't so bad after all ... 

On Wednesday, like a yo-yo, I was Melbourne-bound again.  Mum and I had to be up at the crack of dawn if we were to make it to Peter Mac at 8.20am to get my bloods done. Inevitably, we got stuck in traffic and got to the hospital at a time more like 9, and then we had to wait in an excruciatingly long queue before my number was called. Peak hour on all counts.

Then I was off to get my PICC line - a long central catheter inserted into my upper arm, then advanced through to a bigger vein above my heart. The line meant that the nurses would be able to draw blood from it and attach my drip to it without the laborious trials of needle jabbing and lamenting over my woeful veins. It was going to make my life and theirs a lot easier (the charge nurse actually said she would throw herself off the 9^th floor if I didn’t get one – my rebellious veins had become notorious about the ward). Unfortunately, due to several delays, my 9.30am PICC line appointment became a 1.30pm appointment. 

The delays on the PICC line meant I did not have time to get the first instalment of my chemo, the drug Rituximab, because there simply wasn't time. This was very disappointing because it would extend my stay in hospital by a day. But as this whole journey has taught me, things often don't run to plan, and when they veer off course you can't fall apart because in the scheme of things, it's trivial. I've had to miss out on a lot of things recently (giving away tickets to a band I really, really wanted to see a couple of weeks ago because I was feeling so ill broke my heart). But really, what is a missed social event when you’re fighting for your life?

Thursday I was admitted to Peter Mac for my second round of Hyper CVAD (fifth cycle altogether). I was pleasantly surprised to receive a bed with a view. Long windows gaped out to the gorgeous St Patrick’s Cathedral, its dark steeples piercing a brilliant blue sky. But view or no view, these hospital stays were starting to wear a bit thin. Visitors helped, as did my laptop and Nintendo DS, and the odd meander to Fitzroy Gardens (complete with drip machine in tow, attracting all kinds of stares), but the routine was getting old. I know I have to adjust, because hospital time is going to be a part of my life for some time yet, but it doesn't make it any easier. I still hate the dreariness, the long days, the warm sun mocking me from the window, being stuck to a drip and the horrible hospital food that I don’t want to touch. 

The view could be a lot worse ...

This time around was also difficult because on my third day in hospital the nurse came around and told me I had tested positive for a bug called VRE - an antibiotic-resistant bug that lives in your digestive tract and generally doesn’t cause any problems, but if you test positive for it in a hospital, you may as well have the plague. From then on, nurses, doctors, visitors and even the food staff had to wear a gown and gloves every time they came near me. They also moved to my own room, in isolation so I wouldn’t infect anyone. I felt alienated. The only benefit was that I got my own room and some semi-decent sleep. But otherwise, I felt like a leper.

On Sunday morning, based on the results from my blood tests I could be discharged, but because I had to get the Rituximab as an outpatient on Monday morning, I had to stick around. I was disconnected from the drip and was able to go out for the day, but would return that night to sleep at the hospital, then get discharged the next morning. I was keen to get as far away from the place as possible, though I wasn't feeling great ... I was off my food and feeling weak. 

My mum, sister, cousin and I did a trip to Essendon but after sitting outside at a cafe in the heat, I realized I didn’t feel too well, and had to run myself to the toilet to throw up. It wasn't one of my best days. I got back to my dark hospital room that night, feeling really ill and lying on the bed in discomfort, thinking I’d never sleep. The one good bit of news I got on my return was that I didn’t have VRE at all – there had been a mix-up at the lab. Leper stigma lifted! The staff were apologetic for the mistake, but I got two nights in my own room out of it so ... swings and roundabouts.

Strange dreams and mental images dominated my sleep that night; something else I seem to get around day 4/5 of my chemotherapy. When I woke up in that cold, dark room early Monday morning, I couldn't shower and get out of there quick enough. Then it was up to the chemo day unit to get my belated Rituximab, and then finally, home. At times, living at my mum and dad’s property in the bush has felt isolating, especially having come from the hustle and bustle of London, but this time, it was a safe, leafy haven that I was so happy to see. I have also developed an unhealthy attachment to my bed - I don't think I have ever held such affection for a piece of furniture before - too many years of sleeping on rickety hand-me-down beds in share houses. Just to be out of hospital had instantly lifted my spirits ... being admitted to hospital is almost worth it for the pure elation you feel when you're let out. Almost.

Amazingly, the last few days I have been in great shape. I have been going for walks, eating and drinking plenty and apart from some mild fatigue and shortness of breath – a symptom of my slightly low red blood cells - I feel pretty good, which is in stark contrast to my previous cycle. I've now realised that some of the horrible symptoms I experienced then were most likely a result of my intrathecal – a procedure in which chemotherapy is injected into my spine, which is then carried through my spinal fluid to protect my brain. I have a feeling it had been a bad dose during my last cycle, because I'd never had these symptoms before.

Pancakes on Pancake Tuesday make everything all right.

But nothing's ever simple. While I am so happy to be feeling good right now, it's underpinned by a niggling anxiety that maybe the mild symptoms mean the chemo isn't working ... however, it's not worth thinking about until I get my third PET scan in a couple of weeks.

Things are moving along, and the steps are being taken. It feels so good to tick stem cell collection and  my fourth round of chemo off the list. Every round of chemo means one less to go, that's what I keep telling myself. And while my eyes are always on the bigger picture, I also have to be careful not to look too far ahead either - worrying about a scan that is weeks away is in no way healthy. One day at a time.

A change of tack

In spite of the crappy circumstances, there have been some blessings about coming home. I felt I left London too early, but so many moments since my homecoming have left me thinking ‘God I’m glad to be home’.

And the number one reason is family. These are people that you can’t replace, no matter how far across the world you travel. Coming home meant I got to spend a week in Wollongong in a (peach-coloured) houseful of crazy Dortmanses in the lead-up to my cousin Jamie’s wedding. I honestly felt that week and the wedding was something I will remember for a lifetime.

So this wonderful week of reverting to adolescence, waking up to the beach every morning, playing boisterously loud board/card games, rolling around in laughter during charades, having a girls’ day out in Sydney, watching the crazy Dortmans crew leap out of a plane during an impromptu skydiving mission, regular and inappropriate use of the term ‘Code Brown!’ and ridiculous sunburn culminated in the event of the century, Jamie and Ana’s wedding. I teared up a few times, as did the groom ‘I had something in my eye’ Jamie and many others.

Back home, it was straight back to reality as I was again thrown into the well-trodden routine of doctor’s appointments, blood tests and X-rays, closely followed by my third cycle of chemotherapy. The following weekend, I had the honour of attending another wedding, this time to celebrate the marriage of my friend Brooke to her beau Jason. Great day, one that left me feeling similarly warm-hearted and loved up.

At this wedding I happened to meet an inspirational lady named Jan. She came and sat beside me and told me that we had something in common. Neither of us had realized it at the time, but during the chapel ceremony, I had sat right beside her, the only other person in the whole room with a wig on. Jan had breast cancer and was currently undergoing chemotherapy, however, she had been told there was nothing more that the doctors could do, and the cancer would eventually get her. My heart went out to her, but she was handling it like a trooper, living in the moment, saying and doing what she wanted. She grabbed my hand and told me I would live a long and healthy life, she could feel it. “My children say I have a sixth sense about these things,” she said. Jan knew she was closing in on the final chapter of her life but she was full of zest and positive energy.

Don't you love weddings?

My third cycle, compared to the previous two, was a walk in the park. It was almost too easy. I spent a week in Melbourne, seeing it through a whole new set of eyes, feeling like a tourist all over again. Catching a tram was an exciting adventure; catching a glimpse of the MCG on my way in filled me with nostalgia, wheeling my bag through a now-complete Southern Cross Station, visiting pubs and seeing faces I hadn’t seen for two years, spending a sun-filled day at the Aussie Open followed by dumplings at Chinatown and a lemonade in a leafy beer garden, feeling like I had stepped back in time at Labour in Vain on Brunswick Street, attending a backyard barbecue and visiting Edinburgh Gardens for Aussie Day ... but this was the calm before the storm.

Until that day: Wednesday, the day of my PET scan, which would establish exactly how much cancer still remained in my body. I think I was a bit nervous about this; I hadn’t slept properly for the two nights prior but I think this was more to do with the extreme heat of the Melbourne nights and the many sugary, caffeine-laced drinks I had consumed ­– though there could’ve been more going on subconsciously than I thought. Mum, my right-hand woman, drove up from Gippsland to take me to Peter Mac in East Melbourne, where the scan would be taking place.

The last PET scan I had received had been in London, before my diagnosis. I remember that day vividly; it was a real reality check for me, and it was the first day I actually felt the full burden of what I had to achieve. I had seen a scan of my body, and I had seen cancer splashed all over it. Well PET scan No. 2, now taken at the ‘halfway’ mark, after three cycles of chemotherapy, was a similar deal. My optimistic and somewhat complacent view was dashed a little that day, as again I was confronted with the formidable task I was facing.

The process of the PET scan was pretty much the same; I lay on the bed, they injected me with radioactive ‘tracer’, left me for an hour, then I lay down on the bed and was passed through the giant whirring donut. After that I really only had time for a coffee before heading off to the clinic to see the oncologist, a professor who had been following my case closely even before I left London. He had also been advising my oncologist in Gippsland. I was looking forward to meeting him.

The doctor was a gentle, tall and thin man who we soon discovered had a magical way of explaining things clearly and patiently. Mum and I instantly liked him. He sat us down and after getting the mundane details out of the way like my medical history, diagnosis, chemo symptoms and the like, he pulled up a seat in front of us and addressed us very clearly. I could tell almost before he opened his mouth that this was not going to be the best news.

He explained that at this stage of treatment, if my current chemotherapy (R-CHOP) was to achieve a cure, then the PET scan would be clear of all cancer cells. If the PET scan was clear, there was an 80% chance of reaching a cure after the full treatment. If there was still lymphoma showing up on the scan, the chances of a cure decreased to 20%. I fell into the latter category. By comparing both scans on screen, we could see that what had once been a giant, blazing red lump stretching across my chest (the red on the PET scan showing the ‘most active’ cancer cells) was now a much smaller green (green = less active) blob. (Basically, it had gone from the size of a bowling ball to a cricket ball). The chemotherapy had made a significant reduction, but it wasn’t enough.

The oncologist explained to me that if I continued on the current R-CHOP regime, it was very likely that the cancer would grow, and eventually lead to my death, possibly as soon as 12 months. A doctor had never been this direct with me before and I felt like I was stuck in a slow-motion nightmare. After saying this, he paused. I tried to remember to breathe.

 “Are there any other options?” I squeaked.

“Yes there are,” he replied with confidence. He warned me however, that they weren’t going to be easy, but they were going to give me the highest chance of a cure.

The next plan of attack was to move onto a much more intensive chemotherapy called the ‘B cycle’ (Hyper CVAD). Under this regime, all of the symptoms of my current chemo would be increased by 30%, and would also make my white blood cells decrease for longer periods, leaving me at higher risk of infection. After two B Cycles, which go for roughly three weeks each time, I would get another PET scan, and there was a 90% chance that would come up clear. However, the chemotherapy would devastate my body to the point that it would destroy my body’s ability to produce stem cells, which produce the body’s blood. Therefore at the end of treatment, I would get a stem cell transplant.

The stem cell transplant is going to be difficult; it’s a reasonably new, high-risk procedure and the recovery is long (up to a year). They will use my own stem cells, which they will be collecting this week (via a machine that takes my blood, extracts the stem cells, then returns the rest of the blood to my body). These stem cells will then be stored until the end of my chemotherapy treatment, when they will put them back into my body again. For three weeks following the transplant, I will be in hospital, mostly in isolation, while the stem cells grow and develop. It will take 3-6 months until I can lead any kind of semi-normal existence again, and up to a year until I feel 95-100% (though I may never feel 100% again).  

You can imagine how hard this news hit us. I guess for me, it was another massive reality check: this thing is big. When they found it, it was all over my body, around my heart, lungs, stomach, liver, everywhere. And right now we are embroiled in a race: it’s the chemotherapy drugs vs the lymphoma, and the cancer has made it clear that it’s not going to budge easily. This lymphoma might be stubborn, but so am I.

Eyedrops given to me while in hospital - couldn't be more aptly named!

Two days after my scan, I was admitted to Peter Mac (who will be overseeing my treatment from now on), for my first dose of Hyper CVAD. As many of the drugs need to administered over 24 hours, or at strict times, it is not logistically possible for me to receive the chemo as an outpatient, so I am required to spend the first 4 days of chemo in hospital. This is never fun, but it was made slightly more bearable by the fantastic medical and support team there; I feel like I am in safe hands at Peter Mac. Furthermore, it has also driven home the fact that I’m not alone, as I was surrounded by patients going through similar things.

My drip monitor, affectionately known as 'Big Bertha' which I was hooked up to for four days ... was glad to let her go

I’m now a week into chemo and tomorrow I head back to Peter Mac where they will carry out my stem cell collection. This chemo has already proven a lot harder than anything I have previously encountered. A couple of days ago I had constant ringing in my ears, neck and back pain, burning throat, chills, sweats, heavy arms; I couldn’t even get myself out of bed or eat anything. I felt like the drugs were completely consuming my body; that I was fading away underneath them. I feel frustrated that I have no energy and sometimes even simple tasks seem beyond me. But it’s something I have to deal with and I always have to keep the ‘bigger picture’ in my sights. While recent events have brought me back to earth with a resounding thud, the prognosis remains clear: we are working towards a cure. The outlook is as positive as it was, it just means it's going to be a harder road to get there.