So, on a more positive note ...

I started writing an update about my current situation, and then when I read it back, it just came across as really boring. Because really, not that much has been happening in the past few weeks. I have been undergoing treatment, but I have no idea how successful that has been until I get my scan next week. At the moment it is just another waiting game. So I thought, to make this post a little more exciting, I would share something that I have been a little bit shy about putting on here, but a lot of people have been asking me about it so I think it's time.

During my allogeneic stem cell transplant in November I had the pleasure of meeting Royal Melbourne Hospital's music therapist Emma O'Brien. In a welcome disruption to my days of isolation on the ward, Emma would burst into my room brandishing her Cole Clarke guitar and an iPad packed full of song chords, and we would happily whittle away thirty to forty minutes singing classics from some of my favourite artists like Fleetwood Mac and The Cure.

The idea came about to combine our skills and write a song, so during my admission I put pen to paper and scribbled down some poetry that captured some of the loneliness and underlying hope that filled my days on the ward. I didn't see Emma again until following my discharge, but when I turned up to her studio (yes, after much campaigning and fundraising, Emma has her very own recording studio at RMH) I had a handful of notes ready to be put to music. After playing a few chords, shuffling around the verses, adding a line here and there, Emma and I had a song.

You can read the lyrics here:

Time in the sun

Like every drip of saline, the days slowly trickle by
Outside my misty window, the city gently sighs
I'm climbing the four walls of this glass cocoon
Somebody please tell me I'll be out of here soon

The city skyline is spattered with rain
I can't wait to feel the sun again
On my face again

We could turn this glass oasis into a holiday for two
Where there's sun and laughter, and plenty of things to do
I've got to get my head from now to then
I will have my time in the sun again
In the sun again

Every day, as I'm bound to this pole
A bit of sunshine drips into my soul
Drips into my soul

Panadol for pina colada
Skyscrapers for the sea
IV for a sun umbrella
This is where I long to be

Panadol for pina colada
Skyscrapers for the sea
Ocean through a stethoscope
This gives hope to me

So, I'll cap this off with a condensed update:

Radiotherapy is over. There are not many 30-year-old Melburnians who can claim to have a "radiation tan" but I certainly have one. (Forget the solarium, try a radiation machine! And it actually gets rid of cancer, instead of causing it!) And it's in a kind of heart shape, on both my chest and back. Apart from an icky armpit rash, a few flat days and a dull sore throat on some mornings, radiotherapy was ultimately a walk in the park compared to everything else I've been through. But after five weeks of appointments five days a week, you can imagine how relieved I am to tick that treatment off the list. 

But as is typical with my journey, one chapter closes, and another begins. As radiotherapy drew to a close, I began my injections of the drug Interferon. Interferon is a pretty commonly used drug that can be used to treat things like Hep C and MS. For me, the aim is to activate my immune system (or Megan's, should I say) so that it can fight the lymphoma. The plan is to keep upping the dose until I get graft vs host disease (GVHD). The Interferon comes in the form of a pen, similar to the Epi-pen used for allergic reactions. I have to inject myself, to the stomach, three times a week. This hasn't really been a problem - just last year I had to give myself twice-daily injections of Clexane for three months, and the needles for that were far bigger. 

With my next PET scan looming (No. 13, dun dun dun) I would be lying if I said I am not starting to feel some pre-scan anxiety creeping in. Last night in bed, I had a sudden case of the sweats: What if the PET scan isn't clear? What if I run out of options? What if? But I have been here a million times before and I am pretty skilled at pushing these thoughts in the darkest depths of my mind. As they say, "Ignorance is bliss". I don't want to spend my days wracked with stress and anxiety, so I am just focusing on the best thing I can focus on: that right now, I feel good. 

I have hair! Though admittedly not as much as my two-year-old cousin Hakeem

I am hoping more than anything that next week's scan comes back clear. But my ultimate goal goes a step further than that: I'm aiming for TWO clear PET scans in a row, something that has never happened for me. Once I reach that goal of two in a row I will be booking a trip to the US. What better place to celebrate being healthy again than New York City?

If my PET is all good, I will be leaving my North Melbourne apartment, which makes me a little sad because I absolutely love this city and this area, but I am also looking forward to moving onto the next phase. I will have to head back to Gippsland to regroup and work out the next step but I am pretty sure I will end up back in Melbourne. As per usual I am not planning too far ahead. I've been here before; thinking I was on the home stretch and about to get on with my life, only for things to come crashing down. Instead of returning to the comforts of “normal life” I faced more treatments, more anguish, more uncertainty. Now, I feel reasonably optimistic but it’s so hard to let myself even dare to dream that I might be anywhere near the finish line. But that’s what I do, it doesn’t matter how many times life kicks me in the guts, I still look forward with blind, naive optimism. And even though life has been pretty nasty to me lately, I still really do love it. I have to. 

100 days ... but who's counting?

One-hundred days ago, I was sitting in isolation in the Bone Marrow Transplant ward of the Royal Melbourne Hospital, anxious but full of anticipation about the journey ahead. My white cell blood count was written clearly on the whiteboard: zero; meaning that my bone marrow was primed for the its new stem cells to arrive. The infusion was quick and simple and uneventful, but the procedure was potentially life-saving. Sitting there on day zero, I felt the weight of the monumental task ahead. At that stage, Day +100 felt like an elusive dream.

Well I've made it. I'm officially at Day +100, that magic day. But it's not the happy milestone I expected: it's just another day. 

Day +100 has been mentioned a lot in this blog, and some of you might wonder what is so special about it. Day +100 is what every bone marrow transplant patient is striving for, because, ideally, on this day, they are set free from the hospital regimen of weekly blood tests, check-ups and scans. It means they have got through the 'danger period' and on their way to recovery and independence. It is the day they walk out of the hospital and get on with their lives.

Today I didn't get to do that. While essentially, I was able to walk free of one hospital, I am walking right into another, and my treatment is ongoing. 

I don't really care to dwell on it; Day +100 as a milestone is uneventfully over, but this just means I get to create another. I know better than any other person that things often don't go to plan. I have often likened my journey to sitting on a raft being pushed down a river, and I simply have to go where the river takes me. If I hit rapids, there is no sense in fighting, I simply have to ride it out and have faith that I am going to get out the other side. This visual metaphor has been a very calming influence for me.

So in the past three weeks or so in which I haven't wrote, many things have happened. 

1. Slight changes to the game plan, again

Last time I wrote, the plan was to get 25 sessions of radiotherapy to shrink the tumour in my chest to a manageable size, so that the graft (my new immune system) can carry on and do its work fighting the lymphoma. This plan still stands, however, some extra ammunition has been added to the mix in a bid to hit the lymphoma with everything we've got. 

Firstly, I'll be getting a drug called Rituximab, a drug I know very well. It has featured in every single cycle of chemotherapy I have had in the last 15 months (which adds up to more than 10 cycles now). Rituximab, which was introduced in the '90s, destroys B cells, so it is very effective in treating my cancer (diffuse large B-cell lymphoma). Alongside radiotherapy, it is hoped this drug will have a dramatic effect. The side effects of Rituximab are minimal compared to other chemo drugs, so I don't need to worry about the usual symptoms like low blood counts, loss of hair, sickness, etc.

The other drug on the table is Interferon. This will be used to boost my new immune system, to kick it into action and get it fighting the lymphoma. At this stage, the plan is that I will receive both of these drugs in two weeks, following the completion of my radiotherapy. 

2. Tell me why I don't like Tuesdays

I have been admitted to hospital twice in the last two weeks or so. The first time was Tuesday, January 22, when I came into Peter Mac for my Rituximab. I was feeling pretty average that morning, but this is not entirely unusual (I'm not a morning person at the best of times). When they did my observations, it was discovered I had a low-grade fever (37.5), an elevated heart rate (140bpm) and low blood pressure. Blood tests also showed my white blood cells were at rock bottom (0.1). Bang - hospital admission. I stayed for two nights, no evidence of an infection was found, and I was discharged just in time for the weekend.

3. Aussie Day shenaningans

I had friends visiting, so after my "release" we made a weekend of it. This involved dinner in a restaurant over the twinkling lights of Melbourne, singing our lungs out to karaoke till all hours, nibbles and games at the park and some Hottest 100 tunes (the worst countdown in the history of Hottest 100 countdowns), energetic Just Dance-athons and a cheeky road trip to Mornington on a perfect blue-sky day. With the beauty of hindsight, I now acknowledge that it was probably overload but I would do it all again in a second. 

If you haven't sang karaoke for five hours straight to an empty bar you haven't lived.

Bogan? Me? Nah.

4. Tuesdayitis strikes again ... 

The Monday followed Australia Day I was suffering burnout. I felt ill and could barely peel myself off the couch. Once again this wasn't altogether unusual. For the past couple of weeks since I had been taken off steroids, I had been suffering extreme fatigue, nausea, loss of appetite and an itchy rash, things I assumed were related to steroid withdrawal. I had dropped kilograms from my frame, weight I couldn't really afford to lose.

But the shortness of breath I experienced on Tuesday morning was something else. I had walked from the apartment, into the lift, out of the lift and into the car, and I felt like I could barely breathe. I felt tight in my chest, it felt exactly how I would expect an asthma attack to feel. And I panicked. How can a walk of roughly 10 metres leave me feeling like I was bordering on cardiac arrest? Something wasn't right.

My breathing had steadied by the time I got to Peter Mac for radiotherapy, but when I was called from the waiting room I had a dizzy spell. As I walked to the machine stars filled my vision and I had to steady myself as the radiotherapy assistant asked if I was OK. The nurse was called and after I registered a temperature of 38.1 and an elevated heart rate, I was again admitted to hospital. Unlike my previous stay, this time, I genuinely felt unwell enough to be in hospital so I accepted it.

Four nights later, the verdict was that I was suffering some lung inflammation. Scans and X-rays showed that there was no permanent damage or signs of infection in the lungs, so it was assumed that the inflammation was in its early stages and needed to be treated before it got serious. The doctors believe the cause of the inflammation was GVHD, and the radiation possibly exacerbated it. 

The good news was my chest scans showed that the tumour in my chest had shrunk, by a third of a centimetre, and considering its overall size is just more than two centimetres, this is significant shrinkage considering I'd only had two weeks of treatment. HELL YEAH.

5. Back on the 'roids again

I was discharged on a hefty dose of Predisonolone (steroids), the remedy for lung inflammation. Since then it's like somebody has flicked a switch. Instead of picking at my food with disinterest, I want to eat everything in sight. I have energy, I can walk reasonable distances, my cough has disappeared and I feel like a new woman. This is great, but it always concerns me what a dramatic effect the steroids have on me, and hence the complete burnout I experience when they are taken away. But the important thing is that they are taking care of the lung inflammation and right now I feel better than I have in weeks. As a result I am getting out and about, remaining active and eating as much as possible to make the most of this steroid high. And it's kind of fun!

While I am in a good place right now, the past few weeks haven't been easy. It's been a tumultuous few weeks and sometimes when I'm asked "how I'm holding up" I have to hold back the tears. It's sometimes difficult to accept that after everything I've been through, I still feel like I'm going backwards. I'm tired physically and mentally and so frustrated. I hate that my life is dictated by radiotherapy and clinic appointments. I hate having awesome weekends with friends and family only to return to the crippling reality of hospitals and waiting rooms. I hate seeing all the other patients around me at Peter Mac having such a hard time (though their strength and joy amid the despair is inspiring). I hate that I am a rake, the lightest I've been in about 12 years or more. I hate that I feel I am getting physically weaker, not stronger. I hate cancer so much! 

6. Upwards and onwards

So what's next? I will continue on with the radiotherapy for the next couple of weeks. I have had 14 sessions thus far, so I am just over halfway there. I will rejoice the day I don't have to lie down on that cold bench, get poked and strapped and drawn on, locked into a suffocating mask and get lasered with radiation beams. Although I find myself falling asleep during a lot of sessions, so it's clearly not stressing me out too much. The science of radiotherapy really astounds me, I just can't believe that these radioactive beams are entering my body from all directions and sizzling a tumour embedded deep inside my body. I am always so inspired by how fast cancer treatments are moving - I think in the future radiation will be able to destroy a tumour in no time at all without affecting other delicate organs, chemotherapy will destroy cancer cells without making people sick, and doctors will be able to wire patients' own immune systems to fight the cancer themselves. This is the direction everything is heading.

Around the same time I finish the radiotherapy in two weeks, I will be taken off the steroids again and I will begin on the Rituximab and Interferon which, it is hoped, will help my new immune system to mop up the rest of the lymphoma cells and finish the job. Once again I can only hope and keep all my fingers crossed that this will happen.

At the moment, I have two very promising signs: firstly, that my immune system is interested in fighting the cancer (evidenced by the apparent GVHD and other symptoms) and that radiotherapy or Rituximab or both, are shrinking the tumour. Stuff is working, and I can only be happy about that. 

Oh did I also mention I went to a wedding? Naomi and John, I am so happy I was well enough to share your special day with you - such a perfect day!

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Time to turn up the radio

This post is going to be part bad news, part good news, part philosophical babble, part warts-and-all account of radiotherapy planning and some gig reviewing. Or something.

So let’s just get the bad news right out of the way, shall we?

So last week I found out I still had spots of lymphoma across my body. That was the initial blow. But the doctors were hoping that by weaning me off immunosuppressants, the graft would kick in and do its job.

But once again, this has been followed by another blow, and it’s a game-changer.

About four days ago I got a call from my Peter Mac/Royal Melbourne Hospital specialist nurse asking if I could call in and see her and one of the haematologists. I didn’t have an appointment booked that day and had only just been in the day centre the day before so this was unusual. She said she wanted to discuss a few things, like my cyclosporin dosage. I had a steady stream of visitors to the apartment that morning so I scheduled a meeting for the afternoon.

The day before at the day centre, I’d told the doctor about a sporadic dry cough I’d had for several days, and he'd sent me in for a chest X-ray. “They’re just being careful, I’m sure everything will be fine,” was my attitude. Wrong.

Turns out the cough, and the fact that I can’t do the two-minute walk from my apartment to Royal Melbourne Hospital without feeling short of breath, are symptomatic of something  bigger. The X-ray showed that the lump in my chest is getting bigger. I’m not sure about the medical ins and outs, but apparently it is wrapped around a nerve that is pulling on my diaphragm (which would explain the cough and shortness of breath).

But the unfortunate part of it all is that the tumour is increasing to a size that is too big for the graft to contend with. The graft v lymphoma effect is very efficient when there is very little cancer. But when it starts to become a mass, it becomes increasingly unlikely that the graft will work. Basically, they need to shrink the tumour in my chest, and they need to do it quickly.

So how will they do this? With one of the few untested weapons they have left: radiotherapy. When will it start? As soon as next week. Yep, as I mentioned: game-changer.

At the same time, they have taken me off the anti-rejection drug, cyclosporin, immediately. This will heighten the chances of me getting severe GVHD, but “that is a risk we have to take”, said the doctor. I am already showing some pretty minor, ambiguous sympGVHDtoms of GVHD (a rash, nausea, etc) right now, but it's hard to tell at this stage. (It’s a small consolation in the scheme of things, but I am actually really happy about shafting the cyclosporin because it has icky side effects, one of which being a package deal: a moustache and a pair of sideburns. If only lymphoma was as easy to remove as a moustache. Remind me never to complain about a lip wax again … sigh.)

So yeah, this is more shit news, but surprisingly I have just taken it in my stride. I didn’t cry when the doctors told me, I just sat there, stoic. It’s like I have built an armour around me and bad news barely even affects me anymore. And after all I have been through, I am simply not surprised. This is some kind of super-stubborn, bull-headed, cantankerous cancer (as some would say, a lot like its carrier, haha). I know it is a horrible thing to say, but it is like I am just waiting for that day the doctors take me into their office and tell me I’ve run out of options. Because I am, gradually, ticking each one off the list. It just feels like that is naturally where this is all progressing. I know ‘hope’ has been an important mantra for me but when you have been knocked down as many times as I have, it is very hard to keep doubt at bay. It sounds flippant, but I honestly believe I am prepared for all outcomes. I have been staring death in the face all year, and I don’t think it’s something you ever come to terms with, but you can quell some of the fear associated with it when you remind yourself that it happens to every single one of us.

If a genie in a bottle presented itself to me, there is only one thing, first and foremost that I would want for – that all cancer in the world be eliminated. Now I’m not sure how much power genies have, and if there are boundaries imposed on wishes, but if the rules allow, I would also add a ‘forever’ to the end of that wish.

Then I would wish for a packet of Tim Tams that never runs out. (Just kidding.)

So after that morbid ramble, I’ll but a positive spin on the situation like I always do to make things seem less shitty. What it comes down to is that I am actually lucky that I still do have options. The lymphoma has never been exposed to radiotherapy before, and this is a real positive as it has not had a chance to build a resistance, like it seems to have done with chemotherapy. And even though radiotherapy is going to be a pain in the arse, I am really glad that’s the treatment I’m getting and not further chemo. The radiotherapy, best-case scenario, might get rid of it, and if there is anything left over, hopefully the graft will complete the job. Yes, it would be nice if the transplant could’ve just finished the job and I didn’t have to go through this, but with radiotherapy added to the weapons catalogue, I also feel a sense of comfort, that not one, but two treatments will be used together to combat this persistent disease.

So, needless to say, after this briefing at RMH I was feeling a bit bummed. So what did I do? Hunted down a ticket to see one of my favourite bands, Beach House, who were playing a sold-out show at the Forum that night. Thanks to the power of the internetz, I tracked one down through Twitter and arranged to pick it up at the venue. Ironically, the girl that sold it to me had received mole biopsy results that day which confirmed she did not have a melanoma (I know this because it was on her Twitter feed). I'm not sure if that's ironic twist, or just an indicator that cancer and cancer awareness is so prevalent now that we all have a story. 

I went to Beach House alone, and I was happy to do it that way. I just knew I had to do something nice for myself, escape to my former life for a little while. This was my first gig since Golden Plains (in March last year! This is a long dry spell for a self-confessed band/festival junkie like myself), and it felt sooo good to pile into the Forum with all those Beach House fans after missing out on so much in the past year. I blended right in, except for the elephant in the room, the IV antibiotic pump I was connected to (for my CMV infection). It was hidden in my bag which of course got searched at entry, and when I opened the pack to show him the plastic IV bag of antibiotics, the bouncer was very compassionate, and showed me to some special corded-off seats at the centre of the venue so I could avoid the crowds. I thought this was a lovely gesture. 

But me being me, could only sit through the support act, then I just had to wade through the hipster cesspool just to get a closer listen and look at Victoria Legrand. I stayed up the front for the whole gig, and even though my legs hurt at the end, it was worth it. I even found myself weeping when they started playing, and fair enough, I’d had a full-on day but the people around me must’ve thought I was a melodramatic fool. But Beach House’s dreamy melodies move me for several reasons. The release of last year’s album Bloom, easily my favourite album of last year, coincided with my cancer relapse in May. I also received a vinyl copy of this album in the mail as a birthday present from a dear, dear friend, and I spent a lot of time listening to it and crying (I still have trouble holding back tears when I listen to it now). It was a melancholy comfort during a very dark period. Additionally, Beach House’s previous album Teen Dream was the soundtrack to my first, amazing summer in London. So it kind of didn’t surprise me that tears would spring to my eyes at moments during their set. I think you have to love music as much as I do to understand this. 

Beach House T-shirt for meeee

My lady crush Victoria Legrand, Beach House's lead singer

 Now, from music therapy to radiotherapy (how's that for a segue?).

I will be getting all my radiation treatment at Peter Mac. Back in May, I had been scheduled to receive radiation to my chest area following my autologous stem cell transplant, when it was assumed I was in remission, until a routine PET showed a hot spot in my chest. Radiotherapy was shelved in favour of a much more intensive and effective option – the allogeneic stem cell transplant, which, as we all know, is done and dusted now.

So today I found myself back in the radiotherapy planning room, talking to the same radiotherapy oncologist I saw last May, sitting right next to the mould of my upper body they’d also made back in May (which, thankfully, is still a perfect fit). I have the three dots on my body, tattooed in May, that allow them to align my body as it goes through the machine, and thankfully, no new dots are needed. Once again, as I did in May, I lay down, snuggled my body into the mould, while they fixed a very, very tight mask onto my face (it was all very horror-movie-esque, like Jason from Friday the 13^th or Hannibal Lecter from Silence of the Lambs). It was so tight I could barely blink, and I could only (just) talk thanks to a small hole for my lips. Apparently, the tighter the better - if it isn't cutting off circulation, then it's good. Then I lay there, half naked while they poked and prodded, drew on me, taped me, took photos of me and got everything in the right place (this was a bit uncomfortable, but when you walk into a hospital, you leave your dignity at the door). Radiotherapy is just really weird, and I haven't even been introduced to the big monster machine yet.

The most striking photo of a radiation mask I could find on the internet.
If you want to know the story behind it, go here 

So the plan is that I will start radiotherapy next Wednesday (they weren't kidding about acting quick). I will have to go in for sessions five days a week. Overall, including preparation the sessions will take about 20 minutes, the actual radiation only several minutes. The side effects (sore throat, mild rash, tiredness) are minor compared to everything else I have been through. Radiotherapy will be more an inconvenience than anything. I will be juggling radiotherapy, check-ups at RMH, and the possible symptoms of GVHD in coming weeks and I don’t expect it to be a great time. Radiotherapy will not conclude until late February, about two weeks past the magical day 100, the day I thought I might be able to go home (although I'm not really sure where 'home' is anymore).

Another thing that I think about sometimes is the long-term effects all this treatment will have on my life. Stem cell transplant patients have a 2-3-fold chance of developing a secondary cancer - well I have had two of those, a bucketload of chemotherapy and now radiotherapy so I'm pretty sure my chances are now astronomical. But right now the focus is merely surviving. I'll worry about the other stuff later. 

Oh yeah, so now that I’ve depressed you all beyond belief, you want to hear the good news right? It’ll be a little anti-climactic now I’ve left it till last but it’s made an immediate improvement to my quality of life so it should certainly not be overlooked! I am now longer on IV antibiotics and I am now no longer surgically attached to my ‘style-cramper’ which was that little electronic pump I had to carry everywhere (and I mean everywhere. When I had a shower the pump would lie outside the glass door while I, still attached, would carry on with my personal hygiene routine). I’m so glad it’s gone, it gives me a lot more freedom and makes me feel just a little more normal. They switched me to oral antibiotics and I am very much enjoying this new lease on life, although the fact I get breathless after the smallest activity can be debilitating.

So for now I just have to put my head down and get through the next five weeks. Do I dare to dream that in five weeks the cancer will be gone? Do I dare to dream that, soon, maybe soon I'll start putting pieces of my life back together? Whenever I ask myself these questions, I take myself back to last year, when my doctors pretty much weren't expecting me to make it to the allo-transplant because I had a chemo-resistant tumour growing out of control, and I was pretty sure that was the beginning of the end. Well I'm still here, and many didn't expect me to be. The doctors said without a hint of doubt that a cure is still the goal, and that a cure is still possible. As long as there is a cure in sight, there is hope. 

Anyway in between all the crappy obligations that will be taking up my time, I would like to schedule in as much fun as humanly possible, so if you want to come over and play board games, watch movies, sit in the park, draw, laugh, learn a hobby, whatever ... you know where to find me :)

PET scan #3: third time lucky!

When I was given the news my PET scan came back completely clear, the heavens didn’t open to the chorus of ‘Hallelujah’, there were no tears, there was no jumping up and kissing/hugging the doctor ... it was nowhere near as dramatic as that. The news was merely met with a feeling of absolute joy and relief, but at the same time underpinned by an understanding that the journey is far from over.

The days leading up to the scan were filled with nervous tension. I hadn’t been sleeping very well.  All sorts of thoughts were running through my head. My second round of Hyper-CVAD had almost been a walk in the park compared to my first, and the lack of symptoms made me suspicious … was the chemo working? There was no way of knowing. And with the memory of my last two PET scans - which did not wield uplifting results - etched in my mind, as much as I tried to remain positive, that little black slug called doubt would occasionally creep in. Hyper-CVAD works for 4 out of 5 people, but every now and then I couldn’t help but wonder – would I be part of that doomed 10%? It was a possibility and one I had to be prepared for.

Finally the day of the PET scan arrived. While I come from a religious background, I don’t consider myself a particularly spiritual person nowadays. But when I pulled on my hospital gown, lay down on the white bed and was passed through the PET scanner for the third time, I prayed. Boy, did I pray. I prayed more than I’ve prayed in my whole life, to whoever was listening. It’s hard to explain what was going through my head at that time. As hard as I was wishing for positive results, there was also a peaceful feeling; an acceptance of my own fate.

However, the results of the PET scan wouldn’t be up for discussion until Friday, two days later, so I was just going to have to distract myself until then. So of course, I indulged in some good old-fashioned retail therapy in Brunswick Street. While I was shopping my phone rang, and it was Trish, the nursing co-ordinator from Peter Mac. “I just wanted to let you know that your PET scan was fantastic,” she said. “We’ll discuss it more on Friday, but it looks great. Everything is falling into place.” I was really grateful she called to tell me, as it really did take a load off my mind for the next day or so, even though I didn’t know the full details.

By the time Friday morning came around, my whole family was in Melbourne. My brother had travelled down from Bendigo, Dad and my little sister Megan (who had taken Friday off) had travelled up from Gippsland and my mum and my older sister Jacqui had already been in Melbourne. My appointment with the oncologist was bright and early at 8.45, and when I was called into the doctor’s office, I was accompanied by an entourage (Dad, Mum and Sam).

Being told my PET scan had come up completely clear was exhilarating. It was exactly what I needed to hear. But it’s important to put the result into perspective. Having a clear PET scan result does not necessarily mean I am free of cancer. The tracer used in the scan only detects cancer that exceeds 5mm. Therefore it was more likely, in my case in which the cancer had been very aggressive, that there was still cancer present, it was just simply too small for the scan to pick up. In any case, the cancer had been reduced enough that it was safe to go ahead with the stem cell transplant. It also meant that I would not need a third round of Hyper-CVAD, which meant I would not be admitted to hospital again any time soon. This was an immense relief to me; things were finally falling into place.

My very first PET scan, taken in November 2011. The big black splotch in my chest is a tumour. The black dots in my midriff area are secondary tumours. These are all gone now.

The first massive hurdle has been cleared, but there’s more to come. In four weeks I will begin what will probably be the hardest part of the whole process – the high-dose chemotherapy followed by the stem cell transplant. This will be carried out over three weeks. For the first week, I will be administered with a monster hit of chemo (we’re talking 15 times the amount I’ve had before), made up of three different drugs. These drugs are so potent that they will destroy my bone marrow, which will lose its ability to make stem cells, which produce the body's blood. About 48 hours after the round of chemo finishes, my stem cells (of which I have “gazoodles”, to use the technical term coined by the oncologist) will be thawed and given back to me via a drip. Over the following two weeks I will remain in hospital as I endure the side effects of the chemo. I will need blood transfusions, I will most likely need a feeding tube, I will have restricted visitors (immediate family only) and when I am finally eating and drinking properly again, I will be discharged. From here, the recovery – the process of building my strength and regaining blood cell production – will be long, and is likely to take months.

But even after all that, there is a 50% chance my lymphoma will come back, and if it comes back, it is incurable. So the oncologist has recommended that six weeks following the transplant, as long as it is safe to do so, I should undergo radiation to the chest area, which will help reduce the chance of a relapse by another 20-30%. Radiation also comes with a raft of risks and inconveniences, but these are pretty small in the scheme of things.

It was a lot to take in, but the main thing to come out of last week’s appointment and the one I haven’t stopped thinking about is the fact that my scan was clear. And when you look at what we were dealing with (the tumour in my chest was 14.5 by 9.5 centimetres), it is nothing short of a miracle that all that cancer is as good as gone.

The next decision was a big one: now that my long weekend was gloriously free, do I or don’t I hunt down a ticket to my favourite music festival, Golden Plains? Before I got sick, it had always been my plan to return home in March to attend this festival, so I could catch up with friends, enjoy some great music and get a little bit of the Australian summer before launching into the dreaded double winter.

The decision was made at 10am Saturday: we’d tracked down a ticket, I’d handed over the money, and I was going, in spite of how tired I was feeling. And after two days of beautiful sunshine, amazing music and excellent company, it was a decision I did not end up regretting. It’s nice to know that even after five rounds of intense chemotherapy, I am still able to dance myself into a stupour until 4am. It’s also nice to know that doing a festival sober isn’t too bad (although I did indulge in more than one Pink Flamingo, it has to be said, in keeping with tradition, of course). The tiredness, hoarse voice and achey feet were all merely symptoms of a good weekend and totally worth it. For the first time in ages I got to feel like my old self again, relishing my independence and feeling carefree, without doctors and nurses fussing over me.

OhAunty Meredith, how I have missed you ...

I got a single night’s sleep in my own bed before I was off to Melbourne again, to undergo surgery at the Royal Women’s Hospital to get some of my ovarian tissue removed for freezing (as the chemotherapy I will receive in four weeks is very likely to do permanent damage to my ovaries). After all the chemotherapy is over, the ovarian tissue can be implanted and alongside hormone treatments, will hopefully kick the ovary back into production. However, the procedure is very experimental and very few births have resulted from this process, so there are no guarantees, but there rarely is in this game. It was laparoscopic surgery (done via an incision in the belly button) with no complications; pretty tame compared to everything else I've been through, really.

After surgery I got my PICC line removed. It wasn’t going to be needed and as it can be a common site for infection, the doctor decided it could come out. I was relieved to see it go. Its removal to me was symbolic of the first chapter of my treatment being over. 

So right now I get a four-week breather ­– free of hospital visits, medications, check-ups and tests. It is four weeks in which I am expected to look after myself, build up my strength, remain active and get myself in the best possible shape for the transplant. I’m going to enjoy this time. The first hurdle has been well and truly cleared and I see the next four weeks as a little window of opportunity: to visit all those people I haven’t had a chance to. I'm going to travel a bit and just relax and have fun. I feel like I can look to the future with a lot of optimism now and it feels great. I might not be free of treatment just yet, but I'm free of uncertainty, and that's the best thing that's happened to me to date.